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sexycontainmentprocedures · 5 years ago

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/gallery/pJncP6W this is the imgur url also there was a post on reddit i can’t link it is it about you

Oh shit, that person just... posted my private DM. With no reply to me at all. WOW. (EDIT: See reblog, turns out they did reply but no they did not ask if they could just share all that shit with everyone)

WOW.

Today I learned "I would like to have an open and honest conversation with you" translates to "I want this posted publicly without receiving a response from you or giving my consent"

"It was, actually."

NO IT WASN'T.

***THIS RIGHT HERE IS MY PUBLIC STATEMENT THAT NO IT WAS FUCKING NOT SUPPOSED TO BE PUBLIC, NO REASONABLE PERSON INTERPRETS ASKING FOR A "CONVERSATION" AS ASKING FOR A PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT, AND I WAS NOT ASKED IF IT COULD BE SHOWN TO ANYONE MUCH LESS EVERYONE***

I'm honestly turning anon off, absolutely nothing against you here anon (or anyone else who is just confused or asking questions) this is just the final straw and I'm so so so tired of this nonsense

I'll make a video sometime before the 1-year anniversary of my ban from the wiki (trying to keep the bullshit confined to one year for whatever it's worth) I'm still not going to talk about these ppl by name bc that was meant to be a fucking private DM conversation with someone that I knew knew the names. and it's insane that they just. Posted it on Imgur. What the fuck.

#this kind of shit makes me want to just be an asshole #people can be so fucking shitty #also why am i so stupid? why do i CONTINUALLY give people the benefit of the doubt #discourse /#edit: also i realized u had no way of inferring from the post even tho i was thinking it so #if it doesn't go without saying this is also p shitty to the ppl it names too #like I'm pissed at this person who posted under those circumstances but I'm also pissed at myself for assuming they'd keep that msg private #like even if i have interpersonal issues and drama and hate and negativity with someone i don't want them in extra nonsense #bc it's just shitty like the authority figure needs to be called out but ppl are already starting to and i didn't want to be the one #and the ppl who have bad history with me are also trying to move on #like nothing about that message posted on Imgur was written with a public audience in mind i have no fuckin Interest in like #naming these ppl it's seriously just the authority figures that need to be publicly named #ugh I'm legitimately sorry. like universally for not remembering that everything you say on the internet can become public in an instant #so yeah i pretty much blame myself for this imgur shit there is no such thing as a truly private message online

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